No,I am not blogging about sex. Yes, I did fool you with the title. Haha.
Anyway, now that I have your attention you might as want to read what this is about. Go ahead.
In life, each day is a new discovery. We learn something new everyday. Sometimes about ourselves, sometimes about others and sometimes just about life.
Today, I figured something out. So here goes-
Often in life, we as humans have certain objects of affection that we attach to a single being. A movie, a song, a book. Its that one thing that instantly reminds us of that person. When in love, we listen to that one song or see that movie or read that book over and over again, just so that we get a feel of proximity to that person. We memorize it by heart. Line by line,word by word. And that certain object means so much to us because there is this one special moment we shared with our guy/girl and we never want it to go away. Ever. And that object keeps that memory alive.
But when we realise that the person wasn't the one, when we fall out of love, that same object becomes a thing of detestation. We hate it so much that the thought of it makes us cry or sometimes enraged. If that song comes on, we change it immediately. We cannot stand it. Especially when we fall hard in love and its tough to move on. We don't know how to move on. And we don't want to.
Sure, moving on can be tough but when you try hard enough, when you really want to move ahead, it will happen. But the question is how will you know? I have a way of my own about knowing how-
That moment when you are completely unaffected by that object of association, when it does not remind you of him/her, when it means absolutely nothing to you and when you are able to enjoy it. No strings attached. :)
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